March 11, 2018

Becoming More of Yourself

A voice in my head has been bugging me to make this video for DAYS. Another voice was telling me not to because… A ) Who is even going to watch it. B ) Why would anyone even care. C ) I don’t have a “Pro” environment in which to do it. All of that is just BS. So I did it anyway. What I want to achieve with this video is to inform you of three different ways I learned a WHOLE lot about myself + realized I actually do have some strengths/talents (because I really thought I didn’t, […]
February 28, 2018

I’d rather be a unicorn

Most little girls love princesses. They want to be a princess. I was not most little girls. Being a princess has not ever held any kind of draw for me. To me, being a princess means a confined life. One where you do what you are told. You listen to the rules. And you stay away from anything that might endanger you. Nope. Not for me. I was all about the unicorn, not the princess. Unicorns are free to be wild. They are sought after. And they are MAGICAL. All the things I wanted to be. I’ve always known this about […]
May 22, 2017

Hustle Your Own Way

I am a MONSTROUS fan of Gary Vaynerchuk. I’ve been paying attention to him for years. I find his videos to be relevant and the “audio experience” is my go-to for the treadmill. His hustle is total #goals. However, I’m a realistic gal. I know that I will not ever have the drive in me that he has. Doesn’t mean I’m not taking notes, though. This past Saturday, I had a mini-epiphany about the direction of my future, and it was due to some things he said. Actually, his words jumped right on the back of a conversation I had with […]
May 8, 2017

How Can I Have A Schedule When I’d Rather Be Spontaneous

When I plan a vacation, the only thing I really plan is the destination and where we will be staying. I prefer to keep things open to possibility. Which isn’t to say I don’t have things I want to see and do – just that I have not ever, and I mean EVER, been okay with an itinerary. Same goes with my daily schedule. I have a rough outline of what I need to do on any given day, but I don’t have hard and fast time frames around any of it. Got any idea how that’s working out for […]
February 10, 2017

Driving on Bald Tires Or We All Stick With Things A Little Longer Than We Should

A couple months ago I started to notice that my car had a shake when I was driving at certain speeds. I’ve been driving long enough to know that means my tires need balanced. Around about the same time, my husband noted that one of my tires looked low. Who knows how long it’d been like that – because quite frankly, I never notice such things. He was right. It was low, like down to 18psi low. Clearly, something was wrong with that tire. So, for the last two months, I’ve been filling it up with air every two or three […]
November 12, 2016

I’m never going to be a “Closer”.

In baseball, you have three kinds of pitchers: Starters, Relievers and Closers. Technically, it’s only two, but the Closer is the best of the best when it comes to Relievers, so I think they deserve their own category. Now, honestly, when it comes to business and business-based analogies – this might be a stretch for you. Especially if you aren’t quite as into baseball as I am. But, I had a great big epiphany today, and for me, baseball is the best way to fully wrap my brain around the concept. So, the epiphany… I was talking to my husband this […]
November 8, 2016

Starting Fresh with New Year: Why That’s the Stupidest Thing I’ve Ever Done.

I’m inherently the kind of person who is always striving for something. I’m not happy if I don’t have a mountain to climb or some reason to push through. I’m ill contented if someone tries to force me to settle, and I find it impossible to be okay with average. This causes a lot of turmoil. (Thank goodness for the people who know this about me, and are still here). Every year as the new year approaches…and even though it’s only early November, you must recognize, as I have, that it’s approaching at break-neck speed. It will be here before […]
September 19, 2016

When The Universe Is Screaming, “You’re Doing It Wrong.”

For months now I’ve known all the way down to my marrow that I’m not doing something right. Make that years. Because it’s been more than one, but less than three. And that’s a vague blanket statement on purpose. It’s not just one thing I’m doing wrong. It’s many, many things. It’s letting clutter fill up my house and my head. It’s continuing down a path that is (barely) paying the bills because it’s paying some of them. It’s not making time for the thing that is pulling at my soul. It’s starting projects and not finishing them. So. Many. Things. […]
June 22, 2016

The Two Reasons I’m Not Getting Where I Want To Go

The other day my cousin posted on Facebook, “If you can’t achieve your goals, don’t change your goals, change your actions.” Man, that hit me like a ton of bricks. Because right now, in business and life I’m kind of not getting where I want to be. And to tell you the truth, I’ve been super unclear as to why that is. Until now. I realized today that there are exactly two things wrong with the way I’m doing things right now (and if my husband is reading this, I’m sure he’s nodding his head because he’s been telling me […]
June 14, 2016

The Story is the Point

Have you ever taken one of those online tests that attaches letters to your personality? They are pretty insightful and frighteningly accurate. I’ve taken them several times, and I always, always, always get the same answer…ENFP. (Extraversion, Intuition, Feeling, Perception) You can take one here, if you are interested (seriously, take it – you’ll realize all kinds of things about yourself that you never knew before). Anyway – ENFP is called the “Campaigner”, which basically means attention-whore. If you’ve been around me for more than 5 minutes, you will realize this is fairly accurate. I CAN be quiet – especially when I’m […]
June 10, 2016

So, I’m a story-teller.

The business of being in web design can sometimes be feast or famine kind of situation. Some months you have more work than you know what to do with…and others you have next to nothing. This situation can wear on you after awhile. And after 8+ years, it can get downright old. Every once in awhile, the roller coaster gets to me and I decide a real job might be better. So, I occasionally apply to various web design jobs. A few weeks ago I applied to one in a nearby city. I applied Monday, and by Tuesday they’d gotten […]
May 13, 2016

Progress Is Inevitable

  There was a time when a plow pulled behind draft horses was the way to turn the dirt in your field. (Many of the Amish that live in my area still do it this way.)   And if something catastrophic happened and we no longer had gas or electricity, we would probably go back to doing it that way. But I bet you five million dollars that we would not keep doing it that way for long. You know why? Because humans are not built to stay in the same place. They are not wired to remain static. Progress […]